And all that jazz

funny how...

We hear people speak and boast of supporting, helping one another, and all that jazz.

When you ask questions,  try to grow,  or are assisting others grow and just need a bit of info...crickets. I have gotten,  I will get back,  I haven't forgotten,  I am on it, I know I owe you... countless reasons as to why I will never get paid or an answer. Some will provide answers that are so vague,  I should have just goggled it.

Since becoming an entrepreneur,  I have lost hundreds supporting other small business. Yes, lost... some never shipped packages, some right out have stolen from me,  some have taken funds allocated for other things and just kept it!

I say all of that to say,  I know how not to treat other entrepreneurs.  Small business remains small JUST because of the lack!  Lack of trust, lack of desire to share,  lack of truth, lack of overall willingness to grow others along your own growth path.  Trust me, on our journey it wont kill us to give a glass of water from our own bottomless supply.

I will always support other small businesses.  I want to grow!  I desire all that is for me from HIM. Keep your fists tightly clinched with the small blessings/gifts...its hard to grab more in that position.

I will continue to support small business

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I speak LIFE

If you have nothing positive to say ... just hush ya mouth!
There are enough negative thoughts and energies in the world. I for one, refuse and rebuke that in MY circle! I will let you know, I will block you, I will blast you. If you are looking for a personal landfill to empty your dump truck of bad vibes, keep it moving. No one is perfect, no life is perfect...I get it! Trust me, I get it! If you know the year that I have had, you would wonder how I haven't lost it!
Here'...s how, there is but 1 step :
1.) Speak LIFE into everything that you do and encounter!!!
Love and
Implausible
Faith to
Everything
Again, If you are looking for a personal landfill to empty your dump truck of bad vibes, keep it moving.
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Christians wishing ill will...?

As a Christian, we are taught to turn the other cheek. It is understood that we forgive others...7 times what...? That is Christianity. We are also flesh. It can be difficult to turn that cheek or want to be forgiving when others are not disrespectful, disrespecting, potentially damaging and disrupting seeds that you have so lovingly sown. 
It can be difficult to not "want something" to happen to those demon spawns who bring ill will to you. Sometimes they know, sometimes they don't...
I will continue to do the right thing. I will continue to turn the other cheek I am a Christian! I am also flesh...I can't promise I won't step out of myself to get with you for just a minute...I am flesh...
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Pangs

The loss of someone who you love can be devastating! It has been known to decay relationships, cause family hostilities, and can even cause your demise. That loss can turn your world(s) upside down! The depression and stress that eats you up inside can and will eradicate you, if you allow it to. One of the most hollow feelings of loss is the loss of a loved one who is still here. 

When you have lost someone to addiction, the streets, your children to their friends, your spouse to darkness, your sister to gossip and lies, your cousin to hatred and misunderstanding…the list of what can be lost is endless! I don’t discount the pain of death, not by far! I am only stating the hard to swallow truth that the loss of someone that you can still physically see, is a pain that seems to have no end. In that moment, there are no words for those who have lost. Being sorry, doesn’t fix it, condolences don’t ease the pain, I’m praying for you doesn’t really help…in that moment. A loss is a loss…where do we go from here?

The pain of loss can seem agonizing at times. Remember that GOD doesn’t give us more than we can bear.

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getting emptied

You may never know that the person you love, the one who always makes you laugh, there for you to lean on, picking up the phone, being there for you and so many others...may be battling depression! Why don't you try to pour into others who give you so much of them. Depression is a beast! So when you think about it, this kind and loving friend/sibling/coworker has , their problems, their children, their family, their careers, their losses, the issues of their circle...now your problems on them. They may never say it is overwhelming, because they may not realize until its too late that they were emptied and no one ever thought enough to simply pour a moment back into them...lets do better by those who are good to us...
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Give

Sometimes, it is really ok to do something that you do not financially gain from! It really is! There are times where in order to walk in your purpose...you will need to...yall ready...? There are times where in order to walk in your purpose...you will need to...give...yep! I said it...give...

How in the world are you able to receive your blessings, when you are too busy holding back someone else?!?!?I am not saying to go and give all away and now you are unable to pay bills, lights get cut off…you in the streets! Don’t be foolish! GOD does give us that thing called free will for a reason. All I am saying it…you will not be blessed with a clinched fist. You cannot hold on to every little thing, being greedy, especially when it won’t hurt you to give and expect to see blessing come your way! People pray all day for things, we all do! Then there is that moment when “all of a sudden”…someone comes our way with the exact thing that we needed! Do you really think that is by chance? I don’t! I think my GOD hears my prayers and uses us to make it happen! We have to come out of our pride/greed/feelings long enough to be able to give…and receive! 

,not that you deserve it

Sometimes people are nice because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people are respectful because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people are faithful because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people show common courtesy  because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people are nice because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people are pleasant because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Sometimes people are polite because that is who they are, not that you deserve it.
Please understand..just because I am all of these things does NOT mean that I know no other way. Some people make a conscious and that not so easy to take "high road" because that is who THEY are...not because you deserve any of it.
It isn't always easy to show the world your smile, when you have been wronged. Trust me...though they may be taking the high road, you have probably been punched in the face in their minds...now they have to go home and pray because they allowed you to take them to that dark place....
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