I will say it again

I have said it once or five times…I will say it again…The devil only messes with what he misses.

That lil devil must go to GOD to ask to even mess with you!

Sometimes life will hurt you! Sometimes life will make you want to…just give up!

You were not placed here to give up!

If things seem to be tough…life seems to suck…thank GOD!

Thank GOD simply because you are on the Righteous path!

The devil will reward you when you do his works…so, if you are “catchin hell”, it is only because you are no longer living in it!

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Because you see smile

Just because you see smile, doesn't mean I know no trials
I am neighbors with alcoholism
I am cousins to drug addiction
I am friends with heart disease
I am siblings with cancer
I am kin to disability
I am associates with obesity
I am related to divorce
I am in social circles with abusers
I am family with pain
I am interrelated to death
I am interconnected with darkness
I am acquaintance with abhorrence
Just because you see me with all smiles, doesn't mean my life knows no trials
We all have a story, a past, a dark memory. We also all have a choice! We can choose to live life in darkness and despair or we can choose life! Smile...simply because you can!

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Dont settle for "simUlar"

hey...I hear the word simUlar a lot! This is not a real word, however...since it is so popular I have decided to give it a definition! Yayyy!!! (lol)

This word is not to be confused with

similar : having a likeness or resemblance, especially in a general way they are very similar...with a slight difference...U

 

SimUlar : Not a match but close enough that it looks good

 

Some of us find ourselves in something simUlar to a relationship. This is fine, if it works for you.

Do what you want and what you will...but you know in your heart that "simUlar" is similar to psyching yourself out.

Get the real thing, go for the real thing, work for the real thing...because "simUlar" is far too much work for something that isnt real.

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It takes work

What it takes to get them...it takes at least to keep them! Please know this! Once the newness of the infatuation wears or the “we no longer have to sneak" to be together is there...what then? When the luster of lust wears…what then? When the shine of showing one another is gone…what then? When glint is beginning to dull…what then?

What happens when the children come? What happens when life sets in? When the monotony of life has taken sheen of the relationship to that worn and aged appearance…what then?!?!?!?

Please know that whatever you did to get that person…it will take AT LEAST that to keep them! We have to stay excited about the person that we want to love for the rest of our lives!

We come home, life is on auto pilot, that is fine to a certain extent! You want to come home and expect your mate to be happy that you are there? LMBO!!! No, that is not how it works! You cannot show up to your job and not work…trust me, you will not get that paycheck and you will eventually be replaced or downsized. No one in any relationship wants to feel as though they are insignificant…they can get that feeling at their 40gig…

You don’t have to necessarily wine and dine each night, but you HAVE to remind your mate of the reasons that you got together! You must remind them that they matter. You are obligated as the one who proposed or said yes to the proposal to be appreciative. We all need to feel valuable in our relationships! The loneliest one can be in when they are alone with a mate. Just remember that appreciation and consideration goes a long way.

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Priceless Art

There are many priceless  works of art that are framed and protected in museums .

Yet some call the Mona Lisa the picture of the lady with no eyebrows.

The Scream can be defined by the screaming bald image on a wood bridge.

The Dora Maar with Cat has been called the witch with 2 faces.

The Starry Night has been described as the swirly picture by the guy who cut his ear off.

All of these paintings are priceless and have been called far less than they deserve. Much like people describe one another. It isn't important what others call you, that is not your business. Your reaction to their ignorance and lack of true knowledge is all that really matters.

 

You can call me out of my name, but I will remain priceless and never get out of the frame

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