Friday, July 25, 2014

We never know

We never know what one is going through...

We may never know the full story or even part of the story of the one that you speak ill of. Just know that if you have not yet gone through yours, be patient...its coming. We all go through something. Some of it, we cause, others cause, or it is simply our time to be humbled. 

I am actually laughing. I love that I can be the face of grace while going through hell. 
#YouThinkYouKnow #LetGoLetGOD

Monday, July 21, 2014

Unsolicited

*Unsolicited : given or supplied without being requested or asked for
*opinion: a belief or judgment that rests on grounds insufficient to produce complete certainty
*advice : an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc.

Unsolicited opinion and advice...
Until you know with certainty what one is going through, it is best to keep the unsolicited opinions and advice to o...ne's self. I am not saying we should not be there for others. You can be there and not be obnoxiously vocal and opinioned on a life
that you have never lived.
We may not know what one has been "put through" but only the stories that we hear. We may not have seen the abuse, but only the scars. Without knowing the history behind the actions/scars...it is virtually impossible to know what we would do.
Unless we know their lives, where they were (spiritually) at that time, how they were being treated, the relationship and feelings behind that bond or lack thereof, the abuse they had to bear, the deceit they had to endure...just to name a few things that again, we are clueless to. Until we know with certainty all of this can we have some kind of sincere opinion as to what we may think they should do. Still, unless solicited...it is not a great idea to blurt our opinions or to try and "fix" anything.
Walking in others shoes can look so easy, until we actually try them on for size...

#justmyramblings #justmytakeonthematter #waittobesolicted

Thursday, July 17, 2014

HE will allow him

HE will allow him to "mess" with us! You have free will...what will you do with it, when the tempter arrives? 
As Docta G Davis says "Lets Be Clear..."
A lot of times we oh Thank GOD...yes, give HIM thanks! Give HIM thanks through it all, for it all, to it all....Give thanks to HIM!!!! YESSSS!!!! On the flip side, you think that HE is causing the turmoil that you are going through? Lol...I think not. The devil has to get permission to "mess with you"...wake up...and as Millie Lee-SuccessCoach would say ..."Comone Sombody?!??!?!?"
‪#‎justmyrambling‬ ‪#‎justmytakeonthematter‬ ‪#‎imnoexpert‬