You want me to know that you are honest? Why don't you speak truth?
You want me to know that I can trust you? When was the last time that you were trustworthy?
You want to know why I don't trust your judgement? When was the last time you made a smart and successful move?
None of us are perfect, by far! However...for some it seems that they will go out of their way to go against the grain and to hurt others...then want to be a part of all the good that comes to the ones that they hurt?!?!?!? Your friend's opinions and actions, become your thoughts, become your words, become your actions. While we all need to be mindful of out words and actions...also be mindful of your surroundings and the company that you keep
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Friday, March 28, 2014
Monday, March 24, 2014
I have spoken with people and I am finding that the lines between social media and life begin to blur when your life is social media. Have fun with it, that's what it is here for...networking and fun.
Remember though, when there are people in your real life...real world...who really are there for you...be more mindful of the things that are said and done.
Block me?
I don't want to sound bitter or salty
However, when you block me from your social media life, know that I take i...t personally
If you are going to block me...
Stop asking for me, emotionally
Stop asking for me, economically
Stop asking for me, spiritually
Stop asking for me, mentally
Just stop asking for me...YOU BLOCKED ME!
*side note* when blocking me
block me totally, so that I am able to let go respectably
#justmyramblings
Remember though, when there are people in your real life...real world...who really are there for you...be more mindful of the things that are said and done.
Block me?
I don't want to sound bitter or salty
However, when you block me from your social media life, know that I take i...t personally
If you are going to block me...
Stop asking for me, emotionally
Stop asking for me, economically
Stop asking for me, spiritually
Stop asking for me, mentally
Just stop asking for me...YOU BLOCKED ME!
*side note* when blocking me
block me totally, so that I am able to let go respectably
#justmyramblings
Friday, March 21, 2014
Love is not…
Love is not…
Absolute
Brute and
Unsavory
Soul spoilage and
Exploitation of others
You don’t have to be getting hit to be in an abusive relationship….
Ladies and Gentlemen evaluate and maybe even reevaluate relationships. It isn't always necessarily your mate. Some will and have mastered the art of manipulation to the point that you don't see it. The people around you will! Listen to those who loved you and never steered you wrong prior to the situation that you are finding yourself in now. The thing is...abuse causes depression, anxiety, self doubt, self hate, and addictions just to name a few. Just pay attention to who and what you allow in your lives.
Absolute
Brute and
Unsavory
Soul spoilage and
Exploitation of others
You don’t have to be getting hit to be in an abusive relationship….
Ladies and Gentlemen evaluate and maybe even reevaluate relationships. It isn't always necessarily your mate. Some will and have mastered the art of manipulation to the point that you don't see it. The people around you will! Listen to those who loved you and never steered you wrong prior to the situation that you are finding yourself in now. The thing is...abuse causes depression, anxiety, self doubt, self hate, and addictions just to name a few. Just pay attention to who and what you allow in your lives.
If you are the abuser....you can change
#justmyramblings
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Yep, you are a great person
Yep, you are a great person
you are absenteebasking in your... self inflicted misery
always have a reason to scream...woe is me
loving conditionally
living in self pity
secretly wishing upon others antipathy
Yep, you are a great person
I will remain just being a good person...I don't have that kind of greatness in me
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Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Secret to Women
HEY....I HAVE A SECRET FOR ANY WOMAN WHO WANTS TO KNOW!
Let Him be king of his domain! We should stay in a Queens place and role. This does not mean to just sit on a throne and look pretty. This means put in work. Also as women, we need to learn to better pick and choose our battles. If it doesn't negatively affect Our Kingdom...why are we concerning ourselves with it?!?!? We don't go to a party just because we are invited... approach a "fight" with your mate the same way. When we learn that...we also learn that he is wanting to give us more of him...we just have to act right! lol. Love letting a man be a man and watching him develop!
DISCLAIMER: This is for MEN...not boys, boo thangs, side guys, hopeful guy...none of that...this is only when it comes to Your Man....Your King...ok?
#justmyramblings
Let Him be king of his domain! We should stay in a Queens place and role. This does not mean to just sit on a throne and look pretty. This means put in work. Also as women, we need to learn to better pick and choose our battles. If it doesn't negatively affect Our Kingdom...why are we concerning ourselves with it?!?!? We don't go to a party just because we are invited... approach a "fight" with your mate the same way. When we learn that...we also learn that he is wanting to give us more of him...we just have to act right! lol. Love letting a man be a man and watching him develop!
DISCLAIMER: This is for MEN...not boys, boo thangs, side guys, hopeful guy...none of that...this is only when it comes to Your Man....Your King...ok?
#justmyramblings
Change
Don’t be afraid of change…Your friends, surroundings,
thought process, your reaction to things
Don’t be afraid of change…this is easier said than done!
However faith and fear cannot coexist!
When we ask for patience, it seems like people come out of
the woodworks “testing us”
When we ask for guidance, it seems we are lost and thoroughly
confused for just a moment or two
When we ask for will power, it seems there is our vice at
every turn
We cannot ask and expect change and better, if we aren’t willing
to be tested and make different and better choices
Dare to be your different you! Step out…no leap out on
faith! You won’t be sorry as long as it is FAITH and not Fear that is making
you make moves!
#justmyramblings
Hearing?
We can't truly hear people...
if we are listening with the intent of replying
if we are being defensive
if we are upset
if we don't care
if we are hurt
if we are selfish
if we...if we...if we...
Take the time out to just "hear" your loved ones.
#justmyramblings
if we are listening with the intent of replying
if we are being defensive
if we are upset
if we don't care
if we are hurt
if we are selfish
if we...if we...if we...
Take the time out to just "hear" your loved ones.
#justmyramblings
Boss?
There are bosses and there are leaders!
It doesn't take much to boss someone around.
It doesn't take much to tell someone what to do.
It doesn't take much to sit up somewhere and point!
When your “boss” actually leads, they help you.
When your “boss” actually leads, they learn your duties.
When your “boss” actually leads, they can assist when you are having issues…because they know the job.
Just because you can point someone in the right direction, doesn't make you a leader.
If you want to lead…lead by example! You want to be respected as a leader but you behave as a boss.
I choose put in work and to lead!
There are enough clueless bosses. lol
#justmyramblings
It doesn't take much to boss someone around.
It doesn't take much to tell someone what to do.
It doesn't take much to sit up somewhere and point!
When your “boss” actually leads, they help you.
When your “boss” actually leads, they learn your duties.
When your “boss” actually leads, they can assist when you are having issues…because they know the job.
Just because you can point someone in the right direction, doesn't make you a leader.
If you want to lead…lead by example! You want to be respected as a leader but you behave as a boss.
I choose put in work and to lead!
There are enough clueless bosses. lol
#justmyramblings
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