Friday, March 21, 2014

Yep, you are a great person


Yep, you are a great person
you are absentee
basking in your... self inflicted misery
always have a reason to scream...woe is me
loving conditionally
living in self pity
secretly wishing upon others antipathy
Yep, you are a great person
I will remain just being a good person...I don't have that kind of greatness in me

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Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Secret to Women

HEY....I HAVE A SECRET FOR ANY WOMAN WHO WANTS TO KNOW!

Let Him be king of his domain! We should stay in a Queens place and role. This does not mean to just sit on a throne and look pretty. This means put in work. Also as women, we need to learn to better pick and choose our battles. If it doesn't negatively affect Our Kingdom...why are we concerning ourselves with it?!?!? We don't go to a party just because we are invited... approach a "fight" with your mate the same way. When we learn that...we also learn that he is wanting to give us more of him...we just have to act right! lol. Love letting a man be a man and watching him develop!

DISCLAIMER: This is for MEN...not boys, boo thangs, side guys, hopeful guy...none of that...this is only when it comes to Your Man....Your King...ok? 
‪#‎justmyramblings‬

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Change

Don’t be afraid of change…Your friends, surroundings, thought process, your reaction to things
Don’t be afraid of change…this is easier said than done! However faith and fear cannot coexist!
When we ask for patience, it seems like people come out of the woodworks “testing us”
When we ask for guidance, it seems we are lost and thoroughly confused for just a moment or two
When we ask for will power, it seems there is our vice at every turn
We cannot ask and expect change and better, if we aren’t willing to be tested and make different and better choices
Dare to be your different you! Step out…no leap out on faith! You won’t be sorry as long as it is FAITH and not Fear that is making you make moves!

Hearing?

We can't truly hear people... 
if we are listening with the intent of replying
if we are being defensive
if we are upset
if we don't care
if we are hurt
if we are selfish
if we...if we...if we...
Take the time out to just "hear" your loved ones.
#justmyramblings

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Boss?

There are bosses and there are leaders!
It doesn't take much to boss someone around.
It doesn't take much to tell someone what to do.
It doesn't take much to sit up somewhere and point!
When your “boss” actually leads, they help you.
When your “boss” actually leads, they learn your duties.
When your “boss” actually leads, they can assist when you are having issues…because they know the job.
Just because you can point someone in the right direction, doesn't make you a leader. 
If you want to lead…lead by example! You want to be respected as a leader but you behave as a boss.
I choose put in work and to lead! 
There are enough clueless bosses. lol
#justmyramblings

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Monday, February 17, 2014

We live in a world where the sense of entitlement is “the new black”
Please know that going through life believing that you are due something without doing anything will in fact leave you in a world of blackness….lost…a confused state, if you will. There is no way that you can have anything that is truly yours, if you have not truly worked for it. Even the things that we consider to be small and minute require work.
You want a clean kitchen, but won’t do dishes
You want respect, but don’t give it (or respect yourself)
You want to be loved, but spew hate
You want attention from your mate, but don’t focus on them
You want a job, but won’t stay sober (C~Mone somebody)
You want to lose weight, but won’t work out
You want “good kids”, but don’t communicate with them
You want a good life, but hang with negative people
You want to stop smoking, but your “dude” is the dope man
You want to DO a lot of things, but you never make moves
If you want what is truly DUE you…DO something!
For one to never work for anything but expect everything…is an unrealistic expectation

I tell our children all the time…In everything there are sacrifices that must be made. Do what you have to do, so you can do what you want to do


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Friday, February 14, 2014

Ladies and Gentlemen...please read it again. Cute don't keep em! It doesn't! Yes...you are cute...yayyyy you! I am happy for you and wish you all the luck in your future endeavors. Just remember that in any and all relationships, to include the one that you are in with yourself...maintenance is needed. I hear a lot of people speaking on how they are cute and look at what I am. He has a dime piece! That is great...having a nicely wrapped gift and all, it really is. What is in the box though? Is there nice under the cute? Is there a worker under the cute? Is there faithfulness under that pretty packaging? Is there a communicator? Is there a friend? Cute gets you in the door, absolutely! My question is...when all of that beauty fades, whats left? It doesn't matter how pretty you wrap booboo...its still a piece of crap, right?
We just need to think about how we treat one another, is all. Just because you may be "cute" doesn't mean much if the inside is ugly or empty. #justmytakeonthematter

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