*Unsolicited : given or supplied without being requested or asked for
*opinion: a belief or judgment that rests on grounds insufficient to produce complete certainty
*advice : an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc.
Unsolicited opinion and advice...
Until you know with certainty what one is going through, it is best to keep the unsolicited opinions and advice to o...ne's self. I am not saying we should not be there for others. You can be there and not be obnoxiously vocal and opinioned on a life
that you have never lived.
We may not know what one has been "put through" but only the stories that we hear. We may not have seen the abuse, but only the scars. Without knowing the history behind the actions/scars...it is virtually impossible to know what we would do.
Unless we know their lives, where they were (spiritually) at that time, how they were being treated, the relationship and feelings behind that bond or lack thereof, the abuse they had to bear, the deceit they had to endure...just to name a few things that again, we are clueless to. Until we know with certainty all of this can we have some kind of sincere opinion as to what we may think they should do. Still, unless solicited...it is not a great idea to blurt our opinions or to try and "fix" anything.
Walking in others shoes can look so easy, until we actually try them on for size...
#justmyramblings #justmytakeonthematter #waittobesolicted
*opinion: a belief or judgment that rests on grounds insufficient to produce complete certainty
*advice : an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc.
Unsolicited opinion and advice...
Until you know with certainty what one is going through, it is best to keep the unsolicited opinions and advice to o...ne's self. I am not saying we should not be there for others. You can be there and not be obnoxiously vocal and opinioned on a life
that you have never lived.
We may not know what one has been "put through" but only the stories that we hear. We may not have seen the abuse, but only the scars. Without knowing the history behind the actions/scars...it is virtually impossible to know what we would do.
Unless we know their lives, where they were (spiritually) at that time, how they were being treated, the relationship and feelings behind that bond or lack thereof, the abuse they had to bear, the deceit they had to endure...just to name a few things that again, we are clueless to. Until we know with certainty all of this can we have some kind of sincere opinion as to what we may think they should do. Still, unless solicited...it is not a great idea to blurt our opinions or to try and "fix" anything.
Walking in others shoes can look so easy, until we actually try them on for size...
#justmyramblings #justmytakeonthematter #waittobesolicted
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