We never know

We never know what one is going through...

We may never know the full story or even part of the story of the one that you speak ill of. Just know that if you have not yet gone through yours, be patient...its coming. We all go through something. Some of it, we cause, others cause, or it is simply our time to be humbled. 

I am actually laughing. I love that I can be the face of grace while going through hell. 
#YouThinkYouKnow #LetGoLetGOD

Unsolicited

*Unsolicited : given or supplied without being requested or asked for
*opinion: a belief or judgment that rests on grounds insufficient to produce complete certainty
*advice : an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc.

Unsolicited opinion and advice...
Until you know with certainty what one is going through, it is best to keep the unsolicited opinions and advice to o...ne's self. I am not saying we should not be there for others. You can be there and not be obnoxiously vocal and opinioned on a life
that you have never lived.
We may not know what one has been "put through" but only the stories that we hear. We may not have seen the abuse, but only the scars. Without knowing the history behind the actions/scars...it is virtually impossible to know what we would do.
Unless we know their lives, where they were (spiritually) at that time, how they were being treated, the relationship and feelings behind that bond or lack thereof, the abuse they had to bear, the deceit they had to endure...just to name a few things that again, we are clueless to. Until we know with certainty all of this can we have some kind of sincere opinion as to what we may think they should do. Still, unless solicited...it is not a great idea to blurt our opinions or to try and "fix" anything.
Walking in others shoes can look so easy, until we actually try them on for size...

#justmyramblings #justmytakeonthematter #waittobesolicted

HE will allow him

HE will allow him to "mess" with us! You have free will...what will you do with it, when the tempter arrives? 
As Docta G Davis says "Lets Be Clear..."
A lot of times we oh Thank GOD...yes, give HIM thanks! Give HIM thanks through it all, for it all, to it all....Give thanks to HIM!!!! YESSSS!!!! On the flip side, you think that HE is causing the turmoil that you are going through? Lol...I think not. The devil has to get permission to "mess with you"...wake up...and as Millie Lee-SuccessCoach would say ..."Comone Sombody?!??!?!?"
‪#‎justmyrambling‬ ‪#‎justmytakeonthematter‬ ‪#‎imnoexpert‬

I am a punk

To you, I may be a “punk”

To me…I am particular

I don’t particularly like quarrelling about things that can’t be changed

I don’t particularly like disagreeing about things that won’t change

I don’t particularly like being in opposition about plans changing

I don’t particularly like being in conflict when things don’t go my way

I don’t particularly like disputing about the trivial things

To you, I may be a punk. That is fine…I will take that.

This “punk” prays

This “punk” asked for discernment

This “punk” lives in peace

This “punk” lives a life unoccupied with drama

This “punk” is truly happy….

#justmyramblings #justmytakeonthematter #PunksRule lol

Does it ever strike you as odd...?

Does it ever strike you as odd that there are people who support you #100…when you give your product or services to them? 

Does it ever strike you odd that when you ask those same people to do something for you that only costs time, they won’t?

Does it ever strike you odd that when they need, you are there but when you need they aren't?

Does it ever strike you odd that when they say they will be there, they aren't but expect you to be there for them and early?

Does it ever strike you odd that people will offer just for the sake of offering, but when you accept they lessen the offer?

Does it ever strike you odd that when you treat them as they have treated you…they are upset by your actions?

Does it ever strike you odd that those people tend to make one feel as though “the first time I say no, it’s like I never said yes”?

Well then, this this people like you have but one question to people like those. Does it ever strike you odd that I get tired of being the odd one out?

Get people like that out of your life! Run fast and far! Leaches of life will suck the life out of you! Once you see that people are only in a relationship with you (of any kind) to use you…get out! I for one know that I was not placed on this earth to be the footstool for anyone! Once this is learned and embraced, better and wiser choices can be made
#justmytakeonthematter #justmyramblings #beablessing

What an artist...

You have turned out to be quite the artist! I love the layers, hues, use of manipulation! The contrasts are remarkable! The way you place and use the mediums is astonishing! The structure and use of color…Oh, how it brings it all to life! The symmetry and lines used, creating such truth to the work! You are absolutely inconceivable! What a gift you have been given. I have never met an artist of your caliber. 

I can only imagine the greatness that is in you, should you apply this endowment to not being a con…artist
#justmytakeonthematter #justmyramblings #justthinkin

Your check is in the mail

For the "your check is in the mail" kind of people, like people...addresses change. It is unfortunate that for some things never do and never will. Changing your position and state of mind when people owe you is essential to living at peace. If you can't afford to lose it, don't loan it. For the borrower, if you know you won't be able to pay it back, simply ask to have it. In doing this, relationships are saved because honesty existed and the proper expectation was set. We can't continue to do wrong and expect great things to return us. I have said it before and will again, if you are "the check is in the mail" person in my life...I have written that off. There is no need in pretending. We are still cool, I don't hold things like that against people. Moving forward. .. I just know
#beofyourword
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